The unreciprocated love
Are you in an unreciprocated love? Are you living the world of your own fantasy cooking the things in your mind and living the world of the virtual fantasy to the extent that it has started disturbing your adjustment in this real world? Or have you started following your love charm to the extent that your presence has started bothering him/her and he/she is planning to file a police complaint?
Incidents of unreciprocated love are very common now-a-days. Sometimes, the obsession cripples the bearer to the extent that he/she crosses the line of decency and legality in his/her rage to possess the person.
There lies a mysterious bubble within you which makes you interpret every piece of information wrongly in the manner so as to convince that the other person is reciprocating your fantasies. You get yourself involved in the vicious riddle and want to remain so in the world of this wild fantasy because this is the only connection you have with the person concerned. You feel as if the fantasy of a relation is better than being alone.
You are not the one alone with this feeling. Don’t fear this emptiness. Don’t get yourself involved in questions like, ’Do he/she love me? Or Will he/she ever love me?’ What matters the most is that do you love yourself? If so, get out of this hurtful situation.
Just give a glance at the factors in the person you are attracted to. Those are the one’s which are missing in your life. Replenish them! Aim and purpose are the core human need. If you lack it, you will search them outside in a relation. This drama of one sided love gives a meaning and purpose to your life. So start discovering yourself. Find a worth living goal and I guarantee you that if you find one, you will leave this one sided idiotic perusal within a blink of an eye.
Identify the stressor in your life and try to eliminate them. Obsessive love is another way to run away from those stressors. Don’t let this drama occupy yourself to the extent that you forget solving the practical problems of your life. Also Read: The Ups and Downs in Life
Learning rejection is a necessary part of socialization. Not everyone will reciprocate your affection. You will have to develop the coping strategy out of rejection and strive towards the goals which matters the most to your life.
Those who don’t love themselves can’t love anyone else.
Love yourself, love the world!