The behavioural skills

The human identity is defined by his interaction with others. One doesn’t carry a certificate of excellence with himself. Rather, his words and behavior are the real introducers of his character. One who has imbibed the behavioural skills, one who knows the way he should behave with the elders and the younger is the one who emerge successful in all the strides of life.

Behavioural skill is a science. It’s a way of life which can only be learnt through practice. To misbehave with someone is the easiest assignment one can do. But to get polite and behave descent is not so easy. No one is born trained in behavioral skills, nor one is born indecent. All are born with the general behavior potentialities which further gets differentiated by the influence of the environment one is reared upon. Those who get an environment where respect is given to elders, morality is the prime concern and happiness prevail in the arena, develop into beautiful well behaved individuals who are ever aspired by the society.

Hence, family environment and peer group play a very important role in crafting the behavioral configuration of an individual.

Behavioural skills are the happiest way to a successful life. One who is behaviorally skilled is bound to emerge victorious in whatever venture he tries. His aura is filled with positivity which influence others and makes them their friends.

One who lack the skill will make the foe out of their friends and will remain busy dealing with self procreated problems. Quite obviously, success will evade them.

There are few components, which if one cares upon will make them behaviorally skilled. This should be the effort that one should try to understand them and inculcate them within their personality. They are mentioned as under;

1. Accountability
2. Accurate listening
3. Analytical thinking
4. Apologies
5. Arranging problems by importance
6. Assertiveness
7. Asking for help
8. Asking permission
9. Asking questions
10. Attention to details
11. Avoiding trouble with others
12. Commitment
13. Communication
14. Concentration
15. Conceptual thinking
16. Convincing
17. Creative thinking
18. Diplomacy
19. Decision making
20. Directing
21. Emotional discipline
22. Empathy
23. Expressing affection
24. Expressing feelings
25. Eye contact
26. Flexibility
27. Following directions
28. Following instructions
29. Gathering information
30. Gestures
31. Complaints
32. Goal setting
33. Helping others
34. Honesty
35. Initiative
36. Integrity
37. Interaction with people
38. Keeping out of fights
39. Leadership
40. Listening
41. Logical thinking
42. Motivation
43. Negotiation
44. Non evasion from duties
45. Non verbal communications
46. Recognizing feelings
47. Patience
48. Persistence
49. Planning
50. Problem management
51. Respect
52. Self esteem
53. Self improvement
54. Self management
55. Sensitivity
56. Speaking
57. Stress management
58. Tact
59. Teaching
60. Time management
61. Tension reduction
62. Trust
63. Verbal communication

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Try to nourish the maximum number of above-mentioned qualities within you. This would make you happier and successful.