I am disturbed today, so I cannot write a blog!
The riddle of human mindset is that our own cognition is so much dependent on extrinsic factors that we forget at all that we have controls over it, if any. We totally loose our mind with external distractions, problems and behavior of other people. It’s the external locus of control around which all our thought, our words and our action revolves. We always say that this person has done so bad with me, so I am disturbed. We don’t realize that we are disturbed because we want to get disturbed. The tendency of mindset is just to get rid of any such responsibility which disturbs our equilibrium in the environment. Have we turned so passive that we don’t even understand the real potential of our mind ? Can a person who don’t have the capacity to control his own thought processes expect to control the other factors around him? Not at all!
Firstly, one needs to have a thorough command over his own nervous circuits. He should know, which one is to be blocked and which one to start. Don’t let others command your behavior. Even a dog can be trained to salivate on a ringing bell (Pavlov- Classical conditioning). But we are human beings my dear! Raise your mental level. Don’t react to every stimulus. Success can be ensured only when the person adopts the policy of filtered reaction i.e. only those stimuli which are worth your attention should engage your mental and physical processes. The rest should be selectively ignored. Don’t give the remote control of your behavior to someone in front. Behavior should have internal locus of control and guided by our own will. It should not be a momentary rage or influenced by someone’s ill thought action or behavior.
Life is meant to be enjoyed………..