Does criticism bring a change in the behaviour?
We all have met many such people who are highly critical of others, including their own family members. They are the toxic individuals who can poison the coherence and harmony of any peaceful environment. This habit of continued criticism causes irreparable damage to a relationship and family.
Criticism seldom changes people. Many critiholics are this way because they are operating on false belief that it is their job or responsibility in their stewardship to change their family members and others in the society. They try to bring about this transformation through criticism, because they don’t know any other way and lack skills that actually work. Criticism can never change another because change must come from within the individual. If the person doesn’t realise his mistakes or is unwilling to change, no amount of the Farmaan from any Jahapannah will generate the transformation.
Most of the members of contemporary society believes that criticism will bring the desired change in the person subjected to criticism. However, the fact is that repeated criticism will kill your marriage and family over time, unless you develop the skills to protect yourself.